Lately, I’ve noticed a growing wave on social media: young women getting heavily criticized for being too quick to judge, dismiss, or undervalue young men. This ensued out of the sexual revolution and its long aftermath—the era of “a woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle.”

My aim isn’t to join the pile-on against those women. Instead, I want to focus on something more constructive: making sure young men are actually worthy of a strong, unapologetic defense.

I believe we largely stopped teaching boys and young men how to live optimized, flourishing lives on their own terms—and how that kind of self-possessed, high-value life naturally becomes magnetic to women. Perhaps that one shift is all the situation really requires.

Worthy of Winning exists to fill that gap. It’s about what young men should be taught today: how to quiet the outside noise and think clearly and rationally for themselves; which values to chase without shame or apology; how to select (or build) a career or business that fits; how to lead, influence, and win in the real world; and—most critically—the single biggest decision they’ll ever face: how to choose the right partner.